i'm giving myself excuse again,OMG?!
I realized that my English is really getting very bad, or perhaps I'm never good at it! =(
UARRRR~~Back to the topic, helped aunty with some document typing just now. And we had some talk about the appropriate way to teach her 5-years-old yet UNRULY son. 2 days back, I was so fed up that i warned him I'm gonna slap him if he ever do the same thing again! Aunt said I WAS WRONG!
What's the point of you slapping him? he is way too young to understand why he would get slapped? & what he did is actually just following what we adults are doing! Then she continued, why not you explain patiently to him why he is wrong . he will actually listen to you and get improved! Furthermore, scolding and punishing will get him nothing but fear, and eventually losing all his confidence to take action in the future!
That brighten up my mind! Why didn't me think of all these before I said I wanna slap him? In life, we learn new thing till the moment we say goodbye to world. And today, this is what i learnt-- Learn to be a good daddy!! OH CRAP!! I'm still tooooooo young for this wei!!! =)
Hence, lesson of the day -- Think before you say/do anything. Think of all the consequences!
okay,till then~good nite everyone!
when you're good, you're our angel,
when you're bad, you're the worst devil!
Be good, be great!
Gor Gor will learn to be a good model,
as well as a lovely Gor Gor =p
